Monday 17 December 2012

EXPERIENCE OF A FORMER ASYLUM SEEKER AND ADVICE OF HOW TO COPE.

I SAW THE WORLD CRUSHING ME. EVERYTHING AROUND ME DID NOT LIKE ME. I DECIDED TO DROWN MYSELF IN DRINKING ALCOHOL AND IT MADE ME A WRECK.
DO NOT FALL IN THIS PATH. SOMEONE WHO CARES CAN SAVE YOUR DAY.

Dasuk Founder really did help me to see the positives alternative way to deal with negative circumstances.



The asylum system is a waiting game, and waiting entails worry most times One very wise man once said " worry will not add a minute to your life". So what does one do when it seems all they can do is wait, well stop worrying pay more attention to the present moment.How do you do that? Well, accept the situation is as it is but more importantly narrow that down to the present moment not what you are going to do in 5 minutes time or next week, off course if you need more evidence or need to phone your solicitor do so in that present moment if that is possible, if its not possible accept the present moment as it is and see what happens.( Eckhart Tolle, the power of now). Most mental illnesses are related to the resistance of the present moment, non acceptance of what is. by letting go of resistance you are truly empowered and from that state of non resistance ,to the present moment, worry and fear naturally fall away. I Was detained for three years and through resistance i suffered much, until i did the seemingly impossible which is acceptance of the present moment.


Thank You.

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